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September 15, 2025

“India is Not Safe for Women”: Foreigner Confronts Man in Amritsar for Asking his Wife’s Number

The CSR Journal Magazine

A foreign tourist’s firm confrontation with a local man in Amritsar has gone viral on social media, sparking widespread debate about women’s safety, public harassment, and cultural accountability in India.

Tourist Calls Out Street Harassment

The video, posted by content creator Ameana and her husband Alex Wanders on Instagram, shows Alex confronting a man who allegedly harassed his wife while they were waiting for an Uber. According to the couple, the man approached Ameana, stood uncomfortably close, and asked for her phone number, all while Alex was right next to her.

In the now-viral clip, Alex is heard calmly but firmly questioning the man’s behavior:

“Why are you asking for her phone number? What you did is very strange. You are very strange. You approach a random female by herself and ask for her phone number within two seconds; that’s very strange. Yeah, you shouldn’t do that again, ok. You are a bit crazy,” the foreigner asked the man.

The man, visibly uncomfortable, claimed to be a student and referred to Ameana as his “sister” before walking away.

Online Backlash and Apologies

The video has triggered outrage across social media. Many users condemned the incident, with Indian netizens apologizing on behalf of the man’s behavior.

“Omg @amina_finds I’m so embarrassed for my people,” one user commented.
Another added, “India is not safe, especially for women. Please be careful, or better, just leave.”

Some users pointed out deeper systemic issues, such as lack of exposure, empathy, and proper education, that contribute to inappropriate public behavior.

Police Take Notice

The video also caught the attention of Amritsar Police, who commented on the post asking for more details about the incident. It’s unclear whether an official complaint has been filed yet, but the police presence in the comment section has been viewed as a positive step by many.

Recurring Pattern in Tourist Harassment

This is not an isolated case. Similar incidents have occurred across India, including the harassment of a Dutch woman on a train between Delhi and Agra. Tourists and locals alike have expressed concern over repeated instances where women, especially foreigners, are approached, followed, or photographed without consent.

Social media users react

One user recounted, “I am not surprised, last year I went on a road trip with my then gf and people wouldn’t stop asking her for photos, this was when I was with her! If she were alone, I could only assume how much worse it would have been. A couple of them even asked me to get them to be ‘friends’ with her.”

Another shared, “I just went through a similar experience with a friend who recently visited India. Morons would walk up to her and ask her for a selfie, even the women! I would then have to rudely shoo them away. I had to explain to her that it’s perfectly normal to just ignore people. Incidents like these just tarnish the image of the nation!”

A third said, “So after harassing an unknown person, you can just get away by saying ‘sister’?” “India is not safe especially for women plz plz be careful all the time or the best option please leave for your families safety,” said another.

“I am sorry for this, while I don’t justify his behaviour but I can explain why he behaved so, so many men or women in India don’t have the etiquette on how to interact or approach a woman, or a man for that matter, there is no conditioning at all because there is no exposure at all, they also lack empathy, there is a huge educational gap for that matter unfortunately,” wrote another.

The Larger Conversation

This viral confrontation has reignited conversations about women’s safety, tourist experiences, and India’s image on the global stage. Many netizens are calling for better education, gender sensitivity training, and stricter enforcement of harassment laws to prevent such episodes from becoming the norm.

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